Tragedy Strikes U.S. Water Polo Star Maggie Steffens As Sister-in-Law Dies During Paris Olympics

Maggie Steffens, a three-time Olympic gold medalist in water polo, experienced a personal tragedy during the Paris Games with the unexpected death of her sister-in-law, Lulu Conner, at the age of 26. Team USA coach Adam Krikorian disclosed the sad news following the team’s victory over Greece in the Olympic opener on Saturday. While details about Conner’s passing remain unclear, unconfirmed reports suggest she may have died from an embolism.

Bobby Conner, Steffens’ husband whom she married in the fall of 2023, is mourning the loss. “It’s been a shock for everyone,” Krikorian told the San Francisco Chronicle. “I don’t know the circumstances. But it’s a devastating time for Bobby, his family and for Maggie.”

During the opening ceremony on Friday night, Steffens was seen casting flowers into the Seine from Team USA’s boat. NBC’s broadcast noted the loss in her husband’s family without providing further details at the time. “From what I know, Lulu was full of energy and so excited to be here and watch this team,” Krikorian said. “We can honor her by playing with energy.”

The sudden loss has been a heavy burden for Steffens, but she has found some solace in her connection with Krikorian, who shared his feelings of grief and shock with her. “It’s not something you’re ever prepared for,” he said. “Maggie knows my pain and sorrow — I’ve shared that with her. The pain and shock are the things that stick out.”

Lulu Conner had recently attended Steffens and Bobby’s wedding in November, which took place in San Juan, Puerto Rico. Reflecting on the joyous occasion, Lulu posted on Instagram, “Grateful to have had the most joyous week celebrating these two salsa-dancin’ lovebirds!! Couldn’t ask for a better brother or a cooler new sister.”

In May, Steffens spoke exclusively to uInterview about her training for Paris. “I’m not a fan of the conditioning part, but it’s essential for building strength and endurance,” Steffens admitted. After a three-hour nutrition and physical therapy break, the team returns for an afternoon session that lasts around 3.5 hours. The training is supplemented with sports psychology work, team meetings, and video analysis, all crucial for building the chemistry needed for success at the Olympic Games.”