Candy Spelling, 63, hit back at daughter Tori Spelling, 36, after Tori's Oxygen reality series Tori & Dean devoted an episode to the question of whether to invite her mother to daughter Stella's first birthday party – Candy didn't attended. "A big party wasn't how I envisioned meeting my granddaughter for the first time; but, hey, this is Hollywood, and my grandchildren have become reality show props, too," Candy writes in an open letter published on TMZ.com. "Life isn't just a show. And your families can't just be props. Make your own season finale without creating conflicts you will regret later." (Photo: WENN)